…may work for some people, but from past experience, mainly being with someone who was ON a - make that multiple - dating sites the entire year+/waste of my life, we were together, well, obviously i think they are super creepy.

everyone wants wants wants now now now.  someone to love, someone to take to parties, someone to think about, someone that would notice if we didn’t leave our house for a week and maybe worry. but i have to imagine that always looking for that person or persons would take away from actually loving yourself, having fun by yourself, thinking about yourself. thus making the dating pool on these sites that much less desirable. and gross. and i’d much rather be doing those things “single” than with someone that was filling a void of lonliness. or just wants to get laid.  

so. i will not believe your lies about happiness eharmony, match and plentyoffish (especially you plentoffish).  just as many people meet randomly as real matches made via online - and without all the crap to sort through.